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Death is a weird thing. No one wants people to be sad once they are gone but it is inevitable. I know that I want my funeral to be a party, bright colors and dancing and amazing food. I went to a funeral this weekend for a friend's dad. He had planned it to be a party type atmosphere and it did have that undertone but it is impossible to really celebrate when someone has left this earth. No matter the amazing faith someone has about where they are going, it is something that no one can comprehend. The anniversary of my grandma's death is tomorrow. We knew it was coming and yet all that preparation did not help. When we spread her ashes, we could not celebrate her life. The process of mourning is an interesting one. As much as we desire to celebrate a person's life, we can't help but be sad at the loss of someone. If they have lived a full life and are at peace with death, the ones who are left behind have a hard time being okay. A lot of this doubt comes from the mystery for what or what does not wait for us after death. There are many theories and some people who claim to know what is on the other side after "near-death experiences", but we will never really know until our own deaths. We won't know if we will ever actually see those who passed before us. Faith in a particular religion can calm this doubt but no one will ever actually know.
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